• Cethin@lemmy.zip
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      I commented on one porn post here on Lemmy where the person was trying to look way too young. I commented in a reply to another comment that was saying it’s kind of disgusting and wrong, because the intent is clear that they were trying to at least appear like a child. It doesn’t really matter if they’re actually of-age. It’s like anime with the thousand year old dragon gir thing. If you’re trying to create something erotic/pornographic while appearing like a child, that content doesn’t need to exist.

      That is I think the only time I’ve posted on porn.

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      You probably also guessed that the stripper isn’t actually attracted to you.

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        22 hours ago

        Also the “if you had to pick one” ones. Like it’s a public forum and those are real people. Like I get the whole fantasy and thinking about which one you are most attracted to, but any kind of bonding with others around porn (that isn’t just having sex while watching porn) just seems pathetic to me.

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          20 hours ago

          I used to think about pornstar id marry when I was like 11, they have kid me discoverng porn for the first time logic

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      It’s a parasocial dopamine hit. It’s like commenting on a Twitch stream. There’s a fantasy that they’ll notice and reply to you, and suddenly you’ll be having a conversation with a famous attractive person.

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        23 hours ago

        Sometimes, I think it’s like people yelling at someone in a horror movie “he’s right behind you!”

        It prompts real feelings and reactions and they just have to let them out.

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      Identifying the performer to find more of their material, or more of the same genre

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        23 hours ago

        This wouldn’t be necessary if more of the Internet used AO3 tagging and category systems

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          14 hours ago

          Ive been begging us to adopt booru-style tagging for videos for decades at this point.

          (For the uninitiated, this would mean i could search something like “Brunette curly_hair -horse_penis score:>500” and get every video known to man with a curly haired brunette who does not interact with a horse penis and at least 500 people liked the video)