Cynical and bitter mutualist & consequentialist. Xenofeminist. LGBTQIA. Rabidly hedonistic & sex positive. Soft Anti-natalist. Atheist’s anti-theist. Polyam Finsexual. He/Him (but honestly pretty gender ambivalent).

I hate accelerationists (left or right) and their apologists as much as I hate fascists.

I want to forgive people who were eligible to vote in the US 2024 elections and choose not to vote for Harris. However, I don’t think I can, other than a particular someone who I fell in love with, so you might as well be unrepentant I guess because I probably wont fall in love with you.

I used to want good things, but everyone else seems to be fine with bad things. So now I’m also pro-vacuum decay event.

I don’t usually have access to this account on non-work days

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  • HalfSalesman@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.world•Been there
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    I mean, with the person I recently met and was into significantly, they’ve specifically told me they aren’t into me. Though they certainly acted like they were for a while before. And then later we got momentarily drunkenly intimate but they’ve since stated it meant nothing. I’ve also since made a pretty big ass of myself because of the roller coaster of emotions and they’re pretty cold towards me now.

    The dating pool where I live is also unfortunately quite small in terms of people I’d be willing to even be with even in a city. Living in a red state is hell.



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    I don’t want to date dumb people, religious people (but I repeat myself), rightwingers and centrists (but I repeat myself again twice more), we need to have a rapport through humor, and I want to be able to share video games as a hobby with a future partner. I think these are reasonable desires.


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    I never make fun of it I just roll my eyes and move on.

    The reason I have trouble getting laid is my neuroticism and pickiness. When I find someone smart, atheist, similar sense of humor, into video games & tech, politically aligned with me, and there is mutual physical attraction, I end up acting like a crazy person and blow it all up.

    If at least 1 of those boxes is not checked (except the mutual physical attraction bit of course) I usually feel pretty meh about the person but I usually keep my cool and can get laid. However, then I usually don’t pursue a relationship with them beyond that.

    Recently found someone that I am pretty sure checked all those boxes, so had a mental breakdown and scared them off. Kind of want to buy some rope and/or find a nice tall bridge these days.








  • I don’t see how this would matter though. In a dating app, someone who refuses to date zionists will notice if pro-zionism is on their profile and not match with them or even block them. If there is no mentioned zionism on the rightwinger’s profile and the rightwinger is trying to trick people into dating them whether the anti-zionist is able to post “No Zionists” on their profile is immaterial, the rightwinger will try to match with them regardless.



  • Well, not every zionist likes Netanyaho. In fact I think even among them the majority dislike him because basically most of almost every group dislikes Netanyaho ATM. Hes only still in power because of political leverage, fear, etc. Sort of a “Hes a evil psychopath but what if we get instability in this turbulent war time by removing him?”

    Also I’ve 100% encountered zionist LGBT people on dating apps. They’ve been either Jewish or Centrist Libs.

    Or because of “poor relations” between Islam and LGBT… Which is mostly just any religion and LGBT. Seeing zionism as a lesser evil to Islamic fundamentalism that they associate with Palestinian Nationalism.


  • My autistic ass is going to be nitpicky as well. Zionism deals directly with people who identify with a religion and where they ought to live. I mean it also vaguely alludes to aspects of jewish ethnicity’s since zionism likely also is concerned with athiest but ethnically jewish people unless I am mistaken. There is a lot wrapped up in it.

    Also religions have specific outcomes they desire as well.

    Regardless, my point people should be allowed to be anti-zionist on Grindr if they can be anti-other-vaguely-equivalent-things.